Just Show Up!

Eighty percent of success in life is just showing up.

—Woody Allen

There is much to consider when navigating this thing called life. Education, fitness, skills, socializing, and so forth. We are born without any of these, and it is only through learning about them, then learning how to do them, and then practicing that we come to a place where they are second-nature, and we do them without much thought. Anyone who has learned how to play a musical instrument, or learned another language can identify with that. At first, the process is exciting, as we have entered a new world where we know little to nothing, and each step, from learning basic piano chords, to being able to hold a conversation in Spanish is a little triumph for us. We have exponentially expanded our own universe and how we see it. As we continue to learn whatever has captured our attention, certain things become rote, and we cease to think about them, sometimes to the point of not paying attention.

The point where any activity becomes routine, and doesn’t require quite as much attention as it did when we were still novices, sometimes becomes the most important part of doing that special something. As any musician will tell you, practicing scales, from A to G, major and minor, is not likely the most interesting thing at times, but they will all tell you that this exercise is vital to their being able to play more difficult things: to create jazz riffs, to playing more difficult pieces. While they may feel they are moving through their exercises thoughtlessly, their mind is fully engaged, perhaps more so in these bedrock movements than in others. Here, they are not only improving their motor skills, but they are allowing themselves to move to another level of understanding altogether; perhaps a level they did not engineer, but reached nonetheless, thanks to these exercises. This is when these moments can become the most transformational to their growth as a musician. 

Life is complex as it is, and there are so many things we will never completely understand. Conversely, there will also be many things we perceive and can help others see and absorb new ideas. Trying things, especially things new to us, keeps us excited about learning. Each time we attempt something different, we not only learn new facts and skills, but we begin to link them to what we already know and begin to see new relationships and uses. Noticing these connections leads us to ask questions and seek answers, opening entire new worlds of knowledge to us. This, in turn, enables us to better understand how our world works, and how we can better use that knowledge as we navigate our way through life.

Transformation comes to us in many different ways. Often, we actively seek it by study, practice, and hard work, which is great. Sometimes, however, transformation sneaks up on us in the quiet, repeated movement and words; when we are not thinking too hard about what we are doing, when there is not a particular goal. Just by showing up, doing the work, and letting it guide us.

Hope Springs Eternal

The old proverb, ‘Hope springs eternal in the Human Breast,’ has been with us for so long, because it is human nature to find new ways to be optimistic. Especially when things seem dark and bleak in our lives. We may have been ill for a longer time than we expected, or a loved one has lost a job, or we watch out child go through a very difficult period. It is during these frustrating times that we search for other ways to see and understand what is happening. A good friend refers to these trials as ‘a little inconvenience’ in her life, and treats them as such. It is also during these times that we can easily assume the mantle of ‘victim’ and collapse into a sea of misery and blame, pulling down others in our despair, largely because, to use another old proverb, ‘misery loves company.’

The world has countless stories of suffering, difficulties, and tragedies. The stories themselves are lessons in ‘what went wrong’ in a particular case, but the ones that really resonate with us are of triumph in the face of disaster.  The stories of Anne Frank and her family hiding from the Nazi’s during World War II, or Olympian Louis Zamperini captured and tortured in the Pacific by the Japanese. Anne Frank’s story did not end with a triumph, but the story resonates still due to the hope kept by she and her family that they would ultimately be able to escape the horrors of the concentration camps that interred so many other in Europe. Zamperini was,indeed, finally liberated, coming home to the USA very broken and disillusioned. It was his journey from that low point, to becoming an inspiration and a role model that keeps us fascinated by his transformation. And at the base of both of these stories is hope, that tiny thing that makes troubling times a little less difficult, simply by creating a story that ends well, if only in your mind, while you’re enduring these trials.

Hope takes so many forms it would be impossible to try and list them with anything resembling a final list. Hope can be the plan of ‘if I just keep doing my best, working to improve, things will get better.’ Hope can also mean ‘we’ve done everything we can think of to help this, and just need to keep going until it gets better.’ Hope can also go into wishing or praying for some new inspiration to manifest to improve things. Or of a ‘guardian angel’ to help us out. These last two may sound like fantasy, but sometimes putting the thoughts out there into the Universe can make a difference: something or someone comes along and helps us see our plight in a different way that changes how we think about it. Of the Food Bank—supplying children with weekend backpacks of food to help them and their families with food insecurity—finding themselves with empty cupboards on Friday morning, only to have a high school senior deliver them 2,000 pounds of food on Friday afternoon: his Senior Project dedicated to helping Food Insecurity in his area.

Hope invites wishes, and prayers, and thoughts of unexpected help to get us through tough times. Sometimes it happens, sometimes it doesn’t. It is then that we begin to realize what we are capable of enduring, and that we will get through our troubles if we keep our heads up, looking upward and outward, and just keep going.